Posted in July 2010

Diamond Geezers: Finances – It Pays To Think About Your Money.

I’m prepping for some talks at New Wine North – they’ve kindly asked me to do a number of seminars including one this coming Sunday on ‘Money and Finances.’

In my forthcoming book Diamond Geezers there’s a chapter on Finances, so it’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot. And it pays to think about money!

Ever heard people say, “Well I don’t want to be rich – all those rich people are miserable anyway?” Well most of them aren’t. Not the ones I’ve met – and I have met a number of the richest people in this nation. Because while the Bible warns us not to put our TRUST in riches but in God, properly looking after what God gives you and having money gives you margin- options.

I’ll tell you what misery is with regard to finances. There have been times in my life when I have spent everything till I had next to nothing. Or I overextended on debt. My financial plan was ‘hope for the best.’ Blaming everyone else for my stupidity.

On his way to debtors prison, Mr. Micawber, in Charles Dickens’ David Copperfield, summed up financial misery, and its cause:

Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen nineteen six, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pounds ought and six, result misery.


One day I asked myself the big question; who taught me to borrow money? And I began to back away from debt as much as possible. It was a choice. Personal finance is 80% about choices. If I can just get some control on the idiot I shave with every morning.

I started looking at what Bible has to say. Financial wisdom is all over that book. Most of it is just common sense. But nothing is as uncommon as common sense. It’s plain and simple, easy to understand – but hard to APPLY.

It boils down to what’s called stewardship. Stewardship means looking after what belongs to another. In times past under the feudal system, there was a man who managed all the business issues for the Lord of the castle. He did okay and was provided for as long as he reminded himself every day – however much he got to control: “This isn’t mine. I’m NOT and owner, I’m just a steward.” Because if you owned it, you’d get to keep it. But as John Ortberg reminds us, one day, “It all goes back in the box.”

Jesus famously said, “Store up treasures in heaven . . .” Why? Because it’s right? No, because it’s wise! Because there it will last. It won’t be consumed by moths, rust, thieves. Good stewards have an eye on the money, and an eye on eternity.

Stewardship means I get to be a manager of God’s stuff. Which is great, because God is LOADED. So I can make big plans trusting his provision – if he says GO, his provision will always follow. (Don’t wait for it to all come up front, it ain’t that kind of a deal). When I wake up. When I look at my bank statement, when I make a spending or saving decision. I have to remind myself: “You don’t own anything –it’s all his.” That’s stewardship. And we slip away from that.

We don’t own anything – God owns it all. Can he trust you with what he gives you? Jesus said, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches? If you have not been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who will give you property of your own?

Get that in your spirit. It’s not MY MONEY. I’m just a manager! It’s not my wife, my future, my body – I’m just a manager.

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Diamond Geezers: FRIENDS

I’m working on a new book! Three quarters of the way through writing it at the moment and hoping some kind and talented person out there might help me put a great website together for it too. It’s a book for blokes, called Diamond Geezers - and will be published early 2011 by Integrity. Exciting eh?

I’m going to start putting occasional bits online for your thoughts/ comments/ discussion. I may or may not be able to respond to those – as I’m headed to a publishing deadline.

One of the chapters focuses on friends - I made the statement yesterday in my talk that most men don’t do friendships very well. We can end up insulating ourselves, which leads to isolating ourselves.

Last week on holiday in Zante I was privileged to attend a small but incredibly lively Pentecostal church (Greek speaking, good to help me struggle on with my New Testament Greek) where three new believers were baptised.  a great time- all these candidates dressed in white to symbolise their new lives. At the end of the service all the men kissed all the other men.

Over my years in C of E churches some people moaned about sharing a handshake during the peace in services – well I went up to thank the Pastor and he smacked the lips either side of my face.  I admit I didn’t feel comfortable with that level of intimacy!

I think we men can be content to be superficial. There was a time in my life I was quite happy to just be intimate with my wife and superficial with most other people. Where did that come from? As a police officer I only had mates who were other police officers, and some of those relationships forged in tough circumstances remain very strong and deep today; but I didn’t trust other people. Then when I became a minister I was subtly told, “You can’t have friends in the parish,”  that was the received wisdom from older clergy, and moving round the country every few years didn’t make for easy depth of friendships either.

Yet here we are saying we follow a God who became a man who had close mates who he lived with 24/7 and shared everything with. He caleld them FRIENDS. He was intimate – he washed their feet and was betrayed with a kiss!

Maybe it’s the memory or possibility of being let down or of letting others down that makes us put a crust around our hearts so nobody gets too close again? Do you agree most men are not good a CLOSE friendships? Happy to punch on the shoulder or awkwardly slap three times on the back if you go for a man hug, but not letting others know your ups and downs, your secret thoughts, fears and dreams? People who you mentor and/or mentor you? Companions on your journeys? Work friends?

Women – do you feel like you really know the men in your life?

Men – who’s your best friend?Does anyone really know you? I’m meeting mine for breakfast tomorrow.

Are you ‘content to be superficial?’ Does the internet/ social media etc encourage that (eg facebook ‘Friends’)

Do you have, like Jesus, various groups of friends -can you put some names on these groups?

3 – Peter, James & John

12 – Apostles.

72 – men & women who relied on him and he relied on them?

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