Monthly Archives: July 2012

Problem – Promise – Provision – POSSIBILITY!

I’ll be at NWN12 next week so here are the Ivy MCR GG notes for next week (Commencing 30 July); continuing from Graham Cooke’s recent visit, his words are in italics. 

 

Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. Pray together for revelation from God about the passage.

DISCUSS: Is there any problem now that seems unsurmountable? is there an area where you feel weak? What do you think Paul meant about being strong when he was weak? Pray for one another.

GC: ‘You can’t have a problem without the promise and the provision being attached. You can’t experience a negative without the positive being provided, so now you see the POSSIBILITY that is possible for God.’ 

Discuss: How might this perspective tie in with what Paul was telling the Corinthians?

GC: Get excited by problems, because worry is illegal. Remember that belongs to Jesus now – he paid for it – it’s his stuff! Look at the size of the problem, then go – Oh wow, the promise and the provision must be bigger! We have a totally different take on everything because JESUS IS LORD! Learn to be Kingdom people experiencing life differently. The Holy Spirit loves to help because he’s the helper. He loves his job in your life. And everything is his speciality. 

Do you think and act like that is true? In what areas do you need to change your mind/ attitude/ behaviour?

Jesus establishes closure

He loves your conversion

He empowers your commission

He orchestrates your battles so you learn to prosper and be victorious in everything. 

He upgrades your identity. 

Q. How often have we settled for a Christianity that is just a sin management programme or a free ticket to heaven, rather than a complete change of life here and now?

What if we could live as though God knew everything about us – totally vulnerable to the goodness of God, so full of favour we overflow. What if everything is possible? Revival occurs when we start to see as God sees and think as God thinks – especially about ourselves. So – stop praying like a widow – and start praying like a bride. A woman who knows she’s loved by her husband knows she can get anything she wants from him. Become amazing! 

Read the story of the persistent widow in Luke 18:1-8 as a study in CONTRASTS not similarities. What differences are there when we pray to God versus her position?

You have to learn how to NOT LISTEN to the father of lies.You can’t have Christ in you and be ordinary. Know that nothing can work against you because he is working for you. We have authority to trample on the enemy not by taking authority over the devil but by discovering the majesty of the Lord Jesus Christ. The gospel is so astonishing it borders on fantasy, but if it’s not too good to be true, it’s not God. Because the only way you can worship God is in superlatives! 

Spend some time throwing out some superlatives about God right now. Write some, say some, sing some. God loves it and the devil hates it! 

There’s no place for fear in warfare. We are more vulnerable to the sovereignty of God than to any power of the enemy. You have Christ in you. It’s not a fair fight! It’s a good fight – because the good fight is one you win and you’re condemned to victory. When you know who are and who God is. Part of your commissioning is never be afraid. Enjoy who Jesus is. Give him his stuff back. See yourself in the beauty of your new nature. There’s a new way. 

 

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OVER OUR HEADS IN GLORY

 

Carrying on from my Graham Cooke notes for Ivy Grow Groups again! Sorry these are a little late and thanks for the reminder, I have been at New Wine LSE which was fabulous but very busy and little opportunity for internet access. 

PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER: 

  • Pray for Ivy as people go away for summer, many at festivals like New Wine (some for refreshing, others to work)
  • Pray for the meetings continuing on Sundays at Ivy Didsbury at 10am (short family services) and 1130am (no children’s provision)

STUDY:  

Isaiah 42:8

“I am the LORD, that is My name;  I will not give My glory to another, Nor My praise to graven images.”

Isaiah 48:11 “For My own sake, for My own sake, I will act;  For how can My name be profaned?  And My glory I will not give to another.”

Discuss: What do you think God meant by not sharing his glory with another? 

Graham Cooke said, “You say ‘He won’t share his glory with another!’ Well you’re not another. You’re his and you’re in him. If you’re in Christ, you’re wonderful – step up into your rightful place!” 

Q: In what sense might God share his glory with us, without that contradicting what the Bible passages above taught?

“That means you have a great sense of knowing what you’re like WITHOUT Jesus and knowing what you are like as you’re walking with Jesus. That’s humility.”

Discuss: What would you/your life be like without Christ? If you’re not yet a Christ- follower, what difference do you think it might make if you did become his disciple? 

GC: ‘God put you into Christ so he can always look at you favourably. You’re a citizen of heaven, living here on earth. So we take our cues from there, not here! Then everyone around you can get blessed. And the more we pour out, the more we get back – pressed down and run over. People around you need you not to be struggling with what God has already killed. Take into your community your closure and your commissioning – and you will take territory.’

READ aloud the end of Philippians 3.

What does it teach us about what people glory in and what God glories in? Is anyone in the group a citizen of more than one country? What does it mean to have citizenship in heaven?

GC: ‘God wants to give you have enough favour to reach the people he’s sending you to. Stop messing around in the shallow end!’

READ Ezek 47:3-6

There are 4 measurings:

Ankle

Knees

Waist

Over our heads – in the beauty and majesty of Christ with the current running fast and carrying us. 

If you want to run in that power of the Spirit you have to let go of control. Not my will, but yours. 

Discuss: What ‘control’ holds you back from going head over heels in love with God? 

Pray for one another, inviting the Holy Spirit to draw each person into a place of glorious intimacy with him we can never return from!

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Andy Hawthorne – New Wine LSE Urban Venue.

Matt 9
Jesus the Saviour and Lord spent a long time making tables and chairs He kept saying the timing’s not right
Until the time is right!
Then the kingdom comes – in a person
When the king comes!
Jesus shows us what the gospel is all about
The poor the sick the lonely
And he chooses a youth group to help him.
Matt 9 is a very exciting chapter! Healing, calling, deliverance – all in one day! Then he goes round healing every disease, nothing is too hard for him! What’s the kingdom like?
A little bit of Salt & yeast makes a massive difference: small and invisible And…
It’s a city on a hill! It’s glorious!
Jesus did BOTH!!

The time is right – now.

Multiplication starts. Kingdom isn’t about addition. That’s why the angels get excited when one person becomes a christian but they know in a multiplying kingdom many more get effected

When Jesus SAW the crowds he had compassion on them…

Jesus type Mission starts with
SEE
See the need
Some Christians never get past their own needs – to see.

Then it’s FEEL:
Jesus had compassion – felt their oppression in his guts!
The people on your doorstep. Have you seen it – and you have what they needs
We love Psalm 37:4 because it tells us (we think) he will give us the desires of OUR heart. But really it’s about us having his heart

Stage 3: PRAY:
Ask the Lord of the harvest.
Jesus hardly told us what to pray did he? But we know this. When did you last pray for that Mission?
Where there is hot prayer and hot mission growth happens! Church growth is pretty simple.
Real prayer always results in Mission because inevitably we get to play as well as pray

GET
Mt 10 says they got the authority – impartation. Confidence in the power they had to get the job done.

GO
We have to. We are all called to go! To the lost and poor with the gospel that changes everything!

Lord open our eyes and our hearts!

Mike Pilavachi – the Spirit & the desert – New Wine LSE

We look at the NT then at our lives & see something missing!

Lk 3:21f
Trinitarian event.
We all love being affirmed.
Jesus was affirmed – and publicly!
It wasn’t whispered but a shout from heaven.

Then – 4;1 he was driven in the desert.
Why?
Spiritual equation -
Led to the desert
Filled with the Spirit
Then used by the Spirit.

The desert place is not the devil’s place.

Joseph had his from 17 to 30

Moses had his from 40 to 80

He thought he was God’s gift. Till the desert, the burning bush.

Who am I that I should go?
Was he hoping for affirmation?
Answer?
I will go with you.
That’s not the answer
Because Moses is asking the wrong question
Should be – who are you?

Moses has been in Midian 40 years. Hot, dry, big, quiet, sand. That’s all there is to see about the desert.
Not a day trip
Not a week
There’s only so many sand castles you can build.

But in the desert -
It’s just you and God
And that’s where he does his surgery

Then he did another 40 years with Israel in the desert!

3 lessons from the desert:

Dt 8:2
humility – stripping away all we leant on so we know he is enough. Moses learned that – we aren’t going without your presence!
God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. That’s in the bible 3 times. God really really really means it! We can humble ourselves or he will do it – plan A is less painful

Dt 8:10
The desert helps you learn to praise & give thanks when it hurts.
The people had moaned all the way about God and not having cucumber & garlic. Slave mentality. Thank him in the circumstances – not necessarily for the circumstances.

Hosea 2
God allures us into the desert – to speak tenderly to us.

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The BEST Marriage – available at the Kindle store

Just finished the wedding of a fab Ivy couple. Congrats to Pete and Chloe!

This is not them by the way – they’re way younger but I’m praying their love will go the distance and they field-tested my new book as part of their marriage prep. It’s now available (today is the first day it’s out) on Kindle. So if you love your e-reader, ipad or Kindle (like me) go to this link to check it out, take a peek inside and if you do download it PLEASE review it so others can be encouraged.

I’ve been blogging about the book at http://bestmarriage.org too, so check that out if you have time.

Thank you!

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You Need To Get An Upgrade!

Carrying on here with my notes from the Graham Cooke ‘Keys to the city’ conference – ideal discussions for Ivy Grow Groups for the weeks ahead.

Discussion: 

Which of those four types are you, usually?! 

Read aloud Colossians 3:1-16

Discuss – what strikes you most from the passage today? 

What do you think Colossians 3;3 means when it says you have died?

Graham said…

The world is going to be changed not by demonstrations of signs and wonders, but only when we are a people who are loved by Jesus and know exactly who they are and how to bring peace and love wherever they go. (see John 17:21). How does that happen?

Never start with the negatives. Jesus didn’t just Jesus died AS you – and took it to the grave with him. He took everything negative that was against you and nailed it to the cross. You can’t learn to trust the Lord if you’re dealing with the negative. The Holy Spirit doesn’t deal with the negative,

Good pastoral ministry is not about raking over the past/present – but dealing with our present/future. People should go to the see prophets first before the counsellor. Get some words from God about the future He has in mind for you. Then the counsellor says ‘This is who you are becoming and that’s what we’re going to work with. Because the old you is dead!’ The Father sees you different. He doesn’t see what’s wrong with you. He’s dealt with that!

Discuss: In what ways is this approach different to what usually happens in churches and other therapeutic models? 

God sees what’s missing and is committed to give us all that’s presently missing. The Holy Spirit is a genius at life! He loves to tell you who you are – and what’s next on the journey. You’re in Christ – and one of his names is wonderful, so what does that make you!?

You can’t say, ‘Jesus is wonderful but I’m rubbish.’ That’s just religious nonsense. Stop it!

Discuss: In what other ways do our words contradict God’s Word to and about us?

The Holy Spirit loves teaching you how to walk in newness of life. When he puts his finger on a part of your life that’s not working, he’s saying ‘That’s the site of your next miracle. Give it to me, so I can give you this INSTEAD.’

It’s always about the exchange. The old stuff for the new.

(This reminded me of the words in ‘My Glorious’ – great song- listen here)

The way you think is the key to your transformation. He wants you to replace your present stupid thought with a really wise one! An exhilarating one! This is how you have the mind of Christ, who has never had a negative thought! Thinking is about perception, and language. It’s all to do with understanding who I really am and how to position myself for that.

Our problem?

We want new BUT we think old.

You need to get an upgrade! What if there are unclaimed upgrades for you? If you have been living for the old, you have them stacked up – and heaven is not a storage facility. He’s not storing it all up for then. Ask for the upgrade NOW.

The pre-Christians around you need you to get your upgrade. Evangelism is easy when we’re living in abundance! Your radiant idea of Christ then gives you a radiant idea of yourself and that gives you a radiant idea of your community. That’s glory! Not when you die – NOW!

Pray for one another: Discuss then confess the areas where your perception and language have been ‘OLD’ and ask that the Lord replaces that with the NEW in every area. You might want to write out on 2 sheets what the OLD looks and sounds like, and what the NEW is. Then destroy the old dramatically and joyfully!!

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The NEW you is the TRUE you!

For the next few weeks in Grow Groups at Ivy MCR we’re going to be revisiting the amazing teaching from Graham Cooke at our ‘Keys the City’ conference, based upon my notes. So much truth made it hard to capture it all, even though I’m pretty good at note taking!

WELCOME : Ice breaker – everyone tell a short story from the past – what you remember when you were 7 or 8.

WORSHIP – Take some time together to enjoy the presence of God.

WORD -

Key learning point: If we are going to become the people that God sees when he looks at us, it is essential that we understand the process he takes us through to become Christlike.

Read Rom 6:3-14 (use various translations, compare and contrast etc)

There’s a three-stage process of transformation;

Closure, Conversion and Commissioning.

Discuss – what do those three words mean to you? How would the group define them? Compare to a dictionary definition of each.

The people coming out of Egypt had been slaves for 400 years, they had victim thinking. That means they only knew how to moan and complain and whine! They were a rabble, and had to become a different people group. They had to get closure from the past, if they were to inherit their future.

Q: What betrays the fact that a person has a victim mindset? 

Q. Graham then said, ‘”The cross is CLOSURE for our old nature.” What does that mean? 

In the Body of Christ there are people who are present/past (always affected by that, looking back).
And there are those who are present/future.

Q. Which are you, usually? If you went to the conference share how this teaching helped identify that. 

When you are in Christ you don’t have a right to be wounded, but you have a right to be healed. No matter how many times some people (the past/present thinkers) get prayer, go for counselling etc., they can’t move on – it won;t happen without the old man being closed down. Whatever happened in the past, God’s view of it was that your past was too bad to be cured or cleansed – it had to be crucified!

So you’re dead. Your job – is to stay dead. Stop grave robbing. The date you got saved is on your headstone. The Holy Spirit is not working on your old stuff, he’s given you new life. Jesus died ONCE and FOR ALL.

Q: How do we encourage one another to die to the old life in order to live the new? 

Graham said, “If you find it easy to be offended, it proves you don’t have much of a relationship with the Holy Spirit who is the Comforter. Let HIM comfort you – then grow up from being a baby. Establish your real identity. Offences are a hindrance.”

Q. Are you easily offended? How do you move on? 

The identity issue is this: Don’t focus on what you’ve BEEN - Learn who you are becoming. We are Present/ future people when we like who we are now and who we are becoming!

Q. Do you like who you are now and who you’re becoming in Christ? If not – why not? 

The old has died. God doesn’t talk to us about our sin, he’s dealt with it. Otherwise he’d be treading underfoot the cross as if it wasn’t powerful enough. Christians need to get our story straight – about what Jesus has done for us. Because the enemy would love you to be kept in classes or counselling focused on the old nature. That suits his purpose. He wants you to be focused on what you’re not. Then you’ll never overcome. God is preoccupied with who you are (identity) and who you’re becoming (future).

You don’t become a new person by just changing your behaviour. You discover who you are – and God leads you out of that. This is what it means to be converted! The OLD PASSED AWAY. The new you is the true you.

Jesus comes to you and says, ‘Give me back what I died and went to hell for!’  That anxiety, worry, negatives, hatred – it belongs to me! And I can’t give you what I have for you till you give it to me. I am your Prince of Peace but you can’t have it while you’re holding onto that. Learn to abide in who I am, not in who you are. There is no conversion, without closure.

Q: Have you thought about conversion in these terms before? What new insights have you on it now?

God isn’t dealing with your sin nature – but your sin habits. You have to learn how to be loved, joyful, peaceful, etc. The good habits of the nature of Christ.

PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER remembering, “He uses every situation in life to empower you to become like Jesus. If you’re in Christ, so are all your circumstances. They all have an answer in the Kingdom. So use them to grow up. God will turn it to good for us if we partner with him.”

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Graham Cooke – BRILLIANT THINKING: Leader’s evening at Ivy Manchester

GREAT start to our time this weekend, Graham spoke BRILLIANTLY about thinking BRILLIANT. Tomorrow at the Armitage Centre we’ll hear more. Excited to partner with our friends from Christ Church Harpurhey and Vinelife,

It’s not too late to book in – here.

Here’s my notes from tonight…

Around 25 years ago had 3 dreams:

1) a grey man in an old car was showing him round the grey city pointing out all the sin and problems in people, with a grey attitude. Depressing!

Dream 2 – grey man in slightly better grey car saying, ‘We are doing courses to help them’ – that was even more depressing.

Dream 3 – Bright young guy in a bright car, shouting encouragement that told them who they really were and it CHANGED the people! ‘This is how I see you – you’re going to be doing this!’ The city changed!

The church has an old vehicle being driven by an old man. The old man is the old man that was put on Jesus. We don’t need to do that.

God isn’t focused on the old man. He’s not focused on sin. Rom 6 – consider yourself DEAD to sin. His focus now is on RIGHTEOUSNESS, and now he’s only dealing with the new nature.

The OLD self is DEAD.
Speak and live out of the new nature. The old nature is buried! God’s not asking you to go grave robbing.

Jesus appeared to him in a dream saying, ‘Give me back my stuff!’
All that belongs to me- your fear, insecurity, sin – you’re stealing my stuff.

It’s not who you are. I can’t give you this, if you’re holding onto that.
God’s not asking us to work on it but to lay aside the old stuff. Put on the new man! Don’t babysit a corpse.

You don’t have to work that through – you have to lay it aside.

The problem in lots of churches is that everyone’s working on their stuff instead of rising up to be who they are.

2 Cor 5:17. If it’s true that Jesus didn’t just die for us but AS us, so you’re crucified with Christ. Then when you sin, you’re defaulting not to an old nature but a type of behaviour that hasn’t been replaced with something from the new nature?

Consider yourself DEAD to that.
The antidote to THAT is THIS being developed.

Transformation comes with the RENEWING of the mind. Working on my new self. My real self, in community with others who are doing the same.
It’s about learning how to be a REDEEMED community in a RECONCILED society. Because he is NOT holding their sins against them. He already put it on Jesus! So now the way is open for everyone to come for a taste of what they are really like. Enjoying our new nature! We don’t have any hang ups. We’re too busy being favoured, so nobody’s safe from a blessing, because we’re bringing you the Kingdom.

The Kingdom is a new man in a new vehicle.

When you deal with the old nature you have to do that for a long long time.
When God deals with the new nature he can give you a brilliant thought and if you think like Him and think about ourselves the way he thinks about us, that change can take place straight away.

When God looks at you, he sees nothing wrong with you – just what’s missing from your present experience of you and invites you to experience a miracle in that place.

When God comes, he always comes with a gift.
He says ‘That belongs to me…
and THIS belongs to you…’
New for old.

It’s easy to be prophetic when you know its new for old. He’s always going to take that old struggle and give you his new thing.

We all now people who say they’re speaking the truth in love but aren’t. Because they are just saying what’s True.
What’s true will put you in chains. The truth sets you free.
The truth calls people UP, not OUT.
It says,‘You don’t need to be like that – because this is who you are…’

‘You have an image problem? I don’t – because I see the image of God in you.’

You have a choice now, I can carry on that way or see who I am now. My true self.

We need to practise this in our communities in church and take it out so people discover who they are and what God wants to be for them. The fruit of the Spirit is more powerful than the gifts. Because it’s BEING not just DOING. The best sign and wonder is not a miraculous healing but people seeing you enjoying being loved by him. John 17. Develop loving communities that discover who they are in Christ and behave accordingly. Tell people, ‘This is who you are. You’re brilliant! Stay brilliant!’

We need a radiant idea of God and ourselves. I celebrate who he is.
I like myself then.

And then I see people differently, pray for them differently. And it’s the goodness and kindness of God that brings you to repentance.

Repentance = ‘What you’ve thought brings you to a place you don’t like? Think again.’

Our message?
Now you’re reconciled to God, he sees you different than you think. Start to think like Him.

Transformation is in the air, and it starts with ME.

Apostolic communities always think ‘ME FIRST.’ Let it be in me first. Our role is to be the beloved and let people see how much we’re loved. Everyone’s vulnerable to that!

Every one of us is known in heaven already.

cf. John the Baptist – not even known yet, but an angel comes along and prophesies who he’s going to be and how he’s known in heaven. God is going to release that identity, no just through prophecy but through scripture.

God told him to JUST read and study Ps 91., and keep on doing that. He did it for months. ‘For where I want to take you, I need you to live in Ps 91. This is your inheritance word.’ It’s all about warfare.

God does scripture different than us. He didn’t write it in a year, he doesn’t expect us to read it in a year. He wants us to find our inheritance in it.

Like Jesus did, when he read the ‘wrong’ scripture for the day, Isaiah 61. He says, ‘This is who I am and this is what I’m about.’ You know when you get a word like that. Every promise there is for you. Everything they had, you can have. How many of us have had experiences of scripture where it’s come over us and we’ve gone ‘Oh wow that’s me!’ Lay that alongside that scripture. You have permission to have that promise. You have permission to be that person.

Write it out and read it out to the Lord, saying ‘I accept this upgrade in my identity.’ Because his resources are not tied to your behaviour but your inheritance. It’s not just about getting your needs met. That’s the baby end.

It’s to do with the inheritance. How God sees us. Your identity has glory, power, authority attached to it because he doesn’t do things by half. He sees us so differently. We get to declare, ‘This is who I am! I agree with God!’

Q. So how do we transition away from a Pastor/teacher foundation of church?

That foundation is not able to bear the weight of what God wants to build.
The apostle/prophet is the foundation.
There is no equality there. We’re equal in the sense of being loved, but not power.
teaching ministries go best with a prophet as best friend. You need partnership at all levels.
The apostolic and prophetic need to partner with pastoral ministry. Otherwise you have a ‘present/past’ pastoral ministry, that never moves on to future/ transformation.

Jesus has planned a transformational moment for us that can do 5 years work in 5 minutes! That’s why you need the prophetic and pastoral in there too.

Evangelists need to work with apostles and prophets. Because apostles and prophets are always trying to walk around the old stuff that’s in place, and because some apostles aren’t really they’re just freaky – and you have to pay to be their friend? Really!? Apostles produce sons, not associates.

I believe more in apostolic cities than apostolic networks.

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