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There’s just not enough abundance these days

Whoever has will be given more; whoever does not have, even what he thinks he has will be taken from him. Luke 8:18

Do you have an abundance mentality or a scarcity mind-set?

The way the world is reported right now it’s easy to dig into a bunker ; focus on what we don’t have and what’s the worst that could happen. In Jesus’ famous parable of the talents, the one talent guy came to the Master with his report, saying,

‘I knew that you are a hard man, harvesting where you have not sown and gathering where you have not scattered seed. So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground.”

His problem was in what he THOUGHT he knew about God. But he had that all wrong. The one talent guy had a bad attitude. He felt his master was out to exploit. In order not to be cheated, he stifled his own potential.

Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.” (Another translation says, ‘Do not rely on what you THINK you know).

Dr. Stephen Covey has written that developing an abundance mentality, “…opens possibilities, alternatives, and creativity.”

Those who possess an abundance mentality can find contentment and options where others find competition and envy. People with a scarcity mind‐set resent the successes of others, even people who are on their own team (this happens a lot where it should happen least – between churches! Leadership guru Jim Collins once advised church leaders, ‘Your competition is NOT other churches, it’s anything else someone could be doing Sunday morning).

People with an abundance mentality know that a candle loses nothing from lighting another. When change happens – and it will till the day you die – do you look for what everyone gains or focus on what might be lost? There are forces in life that have been designed to limit us – to keep us where we are. But God’s desire for our lives is that we make constant progress. We were not designed to be contained or restricted. He wants us to be fruitful. He’s determined to bless the determined who persevere. This is evidenced in God’s first words to man in Genesis 1:28. It’s there in John 15:4, Jesus spoke about bearing much fruit.

Half full or half empty?

Half full or half empty?

So today… check your mental dialogue. Do you see limitations or possibilities?

Do you focus on what you don’t have or what you do have?

Do you see problems as insurmountable obstacles or creativity challenges? Do you see the mountain or the One who can move them? Do see that even if there’s less, that doesn’t mean there’s none. Do you see that there’s enough to go round, as long as you don’t try to hold on too tight.

Go forth – and multiply!

PS – for a facinating link to how global microfinance genius Muhammed Yunus sees the global financial crisis creating opportunity to help the poor; see this link reporting on his recent speech at Davos.

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Losing the Plot ? Get EPIC!

There are four things that the Church is going to need to be, to do, and to take hold of in this 21st Century. It can and should shape everything that we who care about the gospel do – all the plans we make for any and every generation we are trying to reach out to in Jesus’ name, forwarding the unchanging message to our culture’s new inboxes.

This is not about how to be culturally relevant to a particular generation. I’m not convinced by the socio-babble of Gen X, Y, Z or back through the alphabet according to when they were born (sounds a bit too much like astrology to me). People are people!

We don’t need to read much more stuff written by people who’ve removed themselves from culture in order to supposedly study it. We need to know God and get to know people, to see people as Jesus sees people and deal with individuals, one life at a time.

As I meet people these days I think this is how people connect to one another; four things summed up in one word. EPIC.

I highly recommend a little book by John Eldredge with that title. It talks about all the stories that people connect with in our culture; how they link in to the true Story God is writing in HIS-story. How the church needs to recognise how we’re here to help people play their part!

I remember hearing and reading from culture vultures quoting Lyotard about how post modernism is ‘the death of meta-narrative.’ What that means for us who like our knowledge put on a lower shelf is that people generally have put aside the idea that there really can be an overarching story which gives meaning to life, so they settle instead for random short stories at best or soundbites at worst.

But the Church has a meta-narrative, a grand story which helps people know and find their place. Until they find where they are in the story they’re LOST. Like when you walk in the room and someone was telling a joke and you only hear the end.

“You can buy the dog for a tenner, it only tells lies anyway!”

It’s a great adventure, about a cosmic battle, the ultimate hero, a personal enemy, a sacrifice that wins the victory forever. It twists and turns like a twisty turny thing before the glorious final page.

Put on the full armour of God...

I’m watching 24 at the moment. A great rambling unfolding adventure (Ricky Gervais says when people moan it’s unbelievable he shouts at them, “It’s not a documentary!). Someone does have to keep reminding of you where you’re up to or you lose the plot. (Who’s that guy again?)

People in our society have literally lost the plot (and many of them suspect the way this chapter is going there’s not a happy ending for their character).

People have lost the plot. They need something EPIC to help them find their place again. The faith the Bible offers us is a great Story, one in which each of us can play a central role.

EPIC is a very useful acronym for us to think about what you do as Church as you try to connect people back to the big Story.

Involved in wanting church to get better? When next you plan the services, plan some kind of event, in fact whatever else it is that you are doing in your church I would suggest to you that what you’re doing needs to be EPIC! (This acronym and idea from my friend futurist Len Sweet)

E. It needs to be Experiential.

This is so important because people are hungry for experiences that they have together with other people. They are trying to fill that God shaped hole with all kinds of other experiences and the world at large is trying to anaesthetise them or make them feel that they’re already satisfied, by the creation of experiences that are addictive but ultimately leave you just as empty as when you started.

P. It needs to encourage Participation.

When I start a teaching seminar these days I’ll generally get everyone to stand up and stretch together at the beginning, or get them to greet someone near them. At one recent conference I even got them to sing “You’ll never walk Alone!” (Many people sang it with far more enthusiasm than they would a worship song).

Participation matters because gone are the days when people will just sit still. When I was little we kids were made to sit in church with our fingers on our lips. The only time I remember being interested was when I got to sit behind a girl called Sharon who I fancied.  The priest was up there doing some mumbo jumbo and who cared. In church if you fidgeted or were an otherwise normal kid you were glared at. No wonder I got out of there as fast as I could and didn’t come back till God brought me back in my twenties!

We need to find ways of engaging with people so that they participate together with us in the good things of God. (If you shy away from the idea of worship as an experience pull the page that has Isaiah 6 in out of your Bible.)

I it has to be Image rich

All around us people are saturated with media. We’re so used to having all kinds of images and all around us people are driven and pulled by the whole idea of images, icons and metaphors. Seth Godin’s Purple Cow should be required reading for any C21st  communicator, followed closely by a fresh look at Jesus’ parables as if you’d never read them before.

Leonard Sweet wrote, “Images not words are the languages of the 21st Century”and it’s so important that we find about the stories, the metaphors that God is speaking to people through.

Finally,

C is connected.

People are suffering from loneliness and false intimacy substitutes – looking for ways in which they can be connected that they can belong, even before they believe; acceptance and friendship were modelled by Jesus’ scandalous table fellowship with EVERYONE except the Pharisees who chose to disconnect and reject.

I told our church on our Vision Day at the start of the year that we aim to be a place where Nobody’s Perfect, but Everyone’s Welcome because ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

The church needs to be an EPIC place!

The church of Jesus Christ is in fact the only organisation that can truly give all of those four things to people in meaningful ways and if we can do it right then I really think we can just about connect with anybody and connect them into the amazing things that God is doing.

It’s time for some new pages to be written…

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Thinking Bigger

Supersize me!

Our God is able to do more than all we can ask or even imagine. That’s what my Bible says. Surely if we believe it, we should be thinking bigger and believing bigger?

Ask something.

Now ask bigger!

Imagine something.

BIGGER!

We had a great prayer meeting here last night for our Christmas services.  As part of it we’ll be doing two carol services in the Trafford Centre, the 4th largest shopping centre in the UK! We’ll be there a week on Sunday in ‘The Orient’ – their 1600 seat food court.

How cool is this?

How cool is this?

The 21st will be the busiest shopping Sunday of the whole year and they expect there’ll be more than 7000 actually there on the day.

The fact is, that first Christmas Jesus came to a very busy place, where people were gathering and crammed in! We will do some events that are attracting people to come to us here at Ivy, but these two events are us taking the real message of what Christmas is all about to where people are – not where we’d want them to come.

The Trafford Centre staff and management could not have been more helpful to us, we’ll be having a great orchestra and choir, loads of good videos on the big screen and and area for people to be prayed with just off to the side of the stage about anything they want to.  I’m looking forward to a fantastic day.

Isaiah 54

2 “Enlarge the place of your tent,
stretch your tent curtains wide,
do not hold back;
lengthen your cords,
strengthen your stakes.

3 For you will spread out to the right and to the left;
your descendants will dispossess nations
and settle in their desolate cities.

4 “Do not be afraid; you will not suffer shame.
Do not fear disgrace; you will not be humiliated.

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This Little Light

Been encouraged by my friend today to get on with blogging again.

It’s a bit like going to the gym – or not! You either keep regularly plugging away or let it slide.

Anyway I encourage you to watch this fantastic video which LZ7 (who come to my church!) have put together for one of their most infuriatingly catchy songs.

BEWARE – once it’s in your head you’re not getting it out again. These guys are going in schools all over the area here bringing their light to kids who need to hear the life changing message about Jesus Christ. They take lessons about self esteem, bullying etc and invite teenagers to concerts where they can hear the unchanging message of God’s love in a way they can understand and relate to.

Last week I went to one of their concerts at the Apollo Theatre in Manchester where more than 3300 kids crammed in to ‘Hope Unleashed’ and as well as having my ears blasted by the noise I had my heart jumping in excitement! God is up to something in this city!

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Encouragement by numbers

I have this on my wall in the office. I copied it off that of a friend, who used to lead a great church in Bracknell. I think the secret of his success as a leader was that he was encouraging of everyone.

101 Ways to Say Very Good

1. You’re on the right track now!
2. You’ve got it made.
3. SUPER!
4. That’s right!
5. That’s good.
6. You’re really working hard today.
7. You are very good at that.
8. That’s coming along nicely.
9. GOOD WORK!
10. I’m happy to see you working like that.
11. That’s much, much better!
12. Exactly right.
13. I’m proud of the way you worked today.
14. You’re doing that much better today.
15. You’ve just about got it.
16. That’s the best you’ve ever done.
17. You’re doing a good job.
18. THAT’S IT!
19. Now you’ve figured it out.
20. That’s quite an improvement.
21. GREAT!
22. I knew you could do it.
23. Congratulations!
24. Not bad.
25. Keep working on it.
26. You’re improving.
27. Now you have it!
28. You are learning fast.
29. Good for you!
30. Couldn’t have done it better myself.
31. Aren’t you proud of yourself?
32. One more time and you’ll have it.
33. You really make my job fun.
34. That’s the right way to do it.
35. You’re getting better every day.
36. You did it that time!
37. That’s not half bad.
38. Nice going.
39. You haven’t missed a thing!
40. WOW!
41. That’s the way!
42. Keep up the good work.
43. TERRIFIC!
44. Nothing can stop you now.
45. That’s the way to do it.
46. SENSATIONAL!
47. You’ve got your brain in gear today.
48. That’s better.
49. That was first class work.
50. EXCELLENT!
51. :: Return to index of articles :: That’s the best ever.
52. You’ve just about mastered it.
53. PERFECT!
54. That’s better than ever.
55. Much better!
56. WONDERFUL!
57. You must have been practicing.
58. You did that very well.
59. FINE!
60. Nice going.
61. You’re really going to town.
62. OUTSTANDING!
63. FANTASTIC!
64. TREMENDOUS!
65. That’s how to handle that.
66. Now that’s what I call a fine job.
67. That’s great.
68. Right on!
69. You’re really improving.
70. You’re doing beautifully!
71. SUPERB!
72. Good remembering.
73. You’ve got that down pat.
74. You certainly did well today.
75. Keep it up!
76. Congratulations. You got it right!
77. You did a lot of work today.
78. Well look at you go.
79. That’s it.
80. I’m very proud of you.
81. MARVELOUS!
82. I like that.
83. Way to go!
84. Now you have the hang of it.
85. You’re doing fine!
86. Good thinking.
87. You are really learning a lot.
88. Good going.
89. I’ve never seen anyone do it better.
90. Keep on trying.
91. You outdid yourself today!
92. Good for you!
93. I think you’ve got it now.
94. That’s a good (boy/girl).
95. Good job, (person’s name).
96. You figured that out fast.
97. You remembered!
98. That’s really nice.
99. That kind of work makes me happy.
100. It’s such a pleasure to teach when you work like that!
101. I think you’re doing the right thing.

Now some of these are a bit cheesy, I’d take 47 as an insult, and number 24 doesn’t even mean ‘very good’! But the principle of actually speaking praise that is specific and personal is what the list reminds me of. The Bible says we’re to encourage one another DAILY.

It’s become a bit of a standing joke now for Jo the administrator that when she’s done something good, rather than me actually think of something complimentary to say I just tell her to pick a number.

It’s a bit like the joke about the guy who stumbles across a monastery one night, and is invited to join them for dinner. At the end of the meal someone stands up and says, “Number 5!” A few of the other monks titter approvingly.

Another stands up, “Number 15.” One or two smirks and a cough.

“What’s going on here?” Asks the bemused traveller.

“Well we’ve all lived in this community so long together, we know all of each other’s jokes. So rather than go through the long winded business of actually telling them we have numbered them so everyone knows which joke it is.”

“Can I have a go?”

“Sure – go ahead.”

The guest says, “Number 75.”
Sniggers begin, but soon turn to table bashing, tear filled guffaws that last a full ten minutes. Monks hug one another and fall off chairs, it’s a riot!

“Why is everyone laughing so much? Did I tell a good one?”

“We’ve never heard that one before!”

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Our fantastic last Sunday!

Eddy goes for a burton in 'It's a Knockout'

Eddy goes for a burton in 'It's a Knockout'

Still shaking my head over yesterday’s phenomenal outpouring of love here for my last Sunday! The church family and local community came together for an amazing time of gratitude to God, quite overwhelming at times.

Apart from making me eat unmentionable things in ‘I’m a Northerner get me out of here!’, having to sing ‘Angels’ by Robbie Williams, and being presented with a beautiful album of our time here and far too many hugs and kisses – we were also really privileged to baptise 25 people! What a day – I will never forget it. Thanks to everyone – and thanks be to God!

There are too many photos to upload an it takes ages – but here’s a little sample – Thanks be to God!

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1984 + 25 = 42 Days

The thought police would get him just the same. He had committed—would have committed, even if he had never set pen to paper—the essential crime that contained all others in itself. Thoughtcrime, they called it. Thoughtcrime was not a thing that could be concealed forever. You might dodge successfully for a while, even for years, but sooner or later they were bound to get you.”

I am appalled that the government’s proposal to increase the pre-charge detention limit to 42 days – six weeks – scraped (thanks to the Ulster Unionists) through parliament by a majority of nine. As someone who used to serve people by law enforcement, this is a fast downward slope toward 1984, 25 years on.

The Bible says, “Remember those in prison as if you were in prison with them. Remember those who are mistreated as if you were being mistreated.”

So, put yourself in their shoes (plastic bags actually, and paper suits to wear). For 42 days.

I was once wrongly arrested (while in the police cadets – it’s a long story!), I was ‘in custody’ for about 15 minutes in total. The longest 15 minutes of my life – before the misunderstanding was cleared up and I was allowed to go free.

Today is 13th June.

42 Days from now is 24th of July.

You don’t see your family, friends, nobody. Guilty by association, prove yourself innocent.

Six weeks. On suspicion.

That’s a lot of scratches on the cell wall if you’ve done nothing wrong. An awful lot can happen in 42 days. Especially if you’re arrested on allegations of ‘national security issues.’ Apparently though, there’ll be ‘compensation,’ How do you compensate for suicides in custody I wonder? These proposals will do nothing to calm the fears of young Muslims who already feel targeted, alienated and labelled (Why? Surely there’s nothing to fear – unless you have something to hide).

Divide and rule?

War is Peace

Freedom is Slavery

Ignorance is Strength

Keep the ‘war on terror’ going, at home and on your street and wherever else we want it. No need for proof or actual evidence, when we have ‘sources’ confirm our suspicion, together with ‘credible information,’ ‘forensic tests..,’ ‘CCTV from the time…’

After all, don’t you trust the government?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uud2LeZF-7k&NR=1

Let’s pray the Lords about face this step toward totalitarianism. The right to petition for habeas corpus has been our society’s most efficient safeguard of the liberty of the individual. The government are tearing up fundamental principles of fairness and the protection of human rights. Benjamin Franklin said, “They who would give up an essential Liberty for temporary security, deserve neither Liberty or security.”

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the fat closed in over it

That has to be one of the yukkiest lines in the Bible doesn’t it? The moment when Ehud the left handed man, stabs fat king Eglon, described with a bit too much detail, thanks.

I saw on the news yesterday that the government are spending £3 million on a campaign to educate kids to the dangers of carrying knives in the wake of this terrible surge of teen killings – it’s hard to get accurate figures, but 26 in London last year is 26 too many! Maybe they should get them reading that Bible story – it’s pretty gross.

The government’s images are awful (I said images, not image, though you could be forgiven…)

This is probably the tamest of the pictures in the campaign

(this is the tamest of the pics )

Knife wounds and fingers missing are pretty graphic, and meant to show kids the reality you never get from watching Rambo films or playing your X box 360 “I’m an assassin” games.

I’d have to question though whether a generation raised on violence – 200,000 violent images viewed by age 18 – are likely to be much put off by more images of it. They pay to see stuff like that!

Anyway, the reality can’t be portrayed by a photo.

The smell of blood and fear, the powerlessness of the victim, the shock and horror after a moment of madness. I’ve seen a lot of people stabbed and cut. I was first through the door when a 15 year old girl had just killed her mother with a knife. Unforgettable. It’s given me an aversion to sharp objects in general! I don’t even like watching Casualty and I know they’re doing the operations on footballs and tomato sauce, not real people. Too many kids have exactly the opposite exposure – they see so much of the unreal they’re amazed when their knife actually slices skin or severs an artery.

On one hand we’re told that family can be ‘whatever you want it to be,’ and that we can feed kids minds with all kinds of violent junk – because what they see on TV etc. doesn’t effect them (try telling that to advertisers!), at the same time we wring our hands over a generation growing up fatherless and angry, fearful and frightened – wielding a weapon of mutual destruction.

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Never Walk Alone

I don’t know whether my talk last Sunday was actually recorded because we’ve been having hassle with that, but the main focus was ‘Why we need each other.’ Let me summarise it.

Our culture applauds independence. But we read in Romans 12: “Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.” That means people need people. Too often we don’t realise how much we need every other member of the church – we think independence, not interdependence.

God wired all of us in such a way that we can only fulfil his purposes for our lives in community, in relationship to each other. That’s what we’re going to be looking at as a church family for the next 40 days, 40 Days of Community.

We looked at three reasons why it’s great to be in a small group with a few other friends who you get to know on a deeper level than just casual acquaintance.

1. I need others to WALK with me. In other words, I need people to help me grow spiritually. The New Testament tells us we’re to walk in the light. We’re to walk in love, we’re to walk in obedience, we’re to walk in the Holy Spirit, we’re to walk as Jesus walked, we’re to walk in wisdom.

But one of the important things is this, (it’s not in the Bible) I’m quoting from Gerry and the Pacemakers; Never Walk Alone (great song – have a listen)

2. I need others to WORK with me. The Bible says in Ephesians 2:10, “God made us to do good works, which he planned in advance for us to live our lives doing.” God put you on earth to do certain things, but you need other people to help you do those things. Otherwise, you get tired.

The reason you’re tired is twofold: a) You try to do it all. b) You try to do it all by yourself! God never meant for you to do that! You know the acronym for Team? (Together, Everyone Achieves More!).

3. I need others to WATCH OUT for me. People who’ll protect me, stand up for me when I need somebody to stand up for me, who’ll help me stay on track, who will warn me if they see me going off. Because we all have blind spots. Things in our lives we can’t see, only other people can see.

A couple of years ago, did you read about that young guy who was an experienced climber and decided he’d go climbing by himself? He thought he could do it alone – but he slipped and fell and his arm got caught. He waited five days alone. He would’ve died there, because there was nobody else to help him. The only way he got loose was to cut off his own arm below the elbow to save his life.

I’m following through a daily reading plan in Rick Warren’s book ‘Better Together’ and really looking forward to going to look at this material tonight in more depth with my L1FEgroup. We’ve been through practically every kind of personal and family crisis you could imagine and we’ve been there for each other. It’s community – it’s God’s plan, for you…

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